Hear and Study
I just lately noticed a dialog just a few Christians had been having with a person who has but to return to religion in Jesus. It was wonderful to me, and saddening, to look at the Christians lacking the purpose of this man’s wrestle and questions. It appeared these chatting with him had been extra involved about convincing him they had been proper than about listening to his coronary heart. In consequence, he walked away with none excellent news about Jesus, changing into much more satisfied that this “faith” wasn’t for him. It’s not for me both—at the least, not what I noticed in that dialog.
We are able to do higher. We should do higher. We’re speaking about folks’s souls!
And we’re representing Jesus.
Serving to folks come to know the love of Jesus is a very powerful factor there may be, and Jesus’s love for us compels us to like folks higher. If we don’t, the excellent news that individuals want will get muffled by our non secular satisfaction.
Proverbs 20:5 says, “The aim in a person’s coronary heart is like deep water, however a person of understanding will draw it out.” We have to develop into folks of understanding—individuals who search to grasp others earlier than we count on them to grasp us and what we consider. We have to learn to ask extra questions and draw out what’s deep inside folks’s souls. We have to be taught to decelerate and pay attention intently to the longings of their hearts. We have to be taught their tales. Briefly, we have to care extra about successful folks to Jesus than about successful arguments.
Gospel fluency isn’t nearly speaking. It’s about listening as effectively. This requires love, persistence, and knowledge.
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Drawing Out the Coronary heart
Jesus was so good at this.
Each time I take into account how I can develop in being an individual of understanding who listens effectively, I consider Jesus with the Samaritan girl on the effectively.1
It was excessive midday, when the solar was at its hottest. There was a motive this girl was getting her water presently. She selected a time when nobody else can be on the effectively. No one went there within the warmth of the day. However she in all probability needed to keep away from working into one of many wives of the lads with whom she had been sexually concerned. She had had 5 husbands, and the person she was then concerned with was not her husband. Nevertheless, Jesus didn’t begin with the place she was flawed. He really began in a humble posture of receiving from her.
He requested her for water, and she or he poured out her soul.
I’ve discovered that beginning with a posture of humility, standing in a spot of want and having a coronary heart that’s prepared not solely to provide solutions but additionally to obtain perception, creates a welcoming place for folks to open their hearts. The extra open we’re to pay attention and be taught, the extra probably individuals are to be open as effectively.
For those who take a look at the story intently, you uncover that Jesus continued to make very quick, provocative statements that invited extra dialog. He was drawing out, little by little, the longing of her soul.
He’s a grasp at drawing out the center.
You discover this if you happen to learn the Gospels. Jesus recurrently mentioned simply sufficient to ask additional probing or create intrigue. He additionally liked to ask questions in order that the overflow of the center (perception) would spill out of an individual’s mouth (phrases).
I’m amazed at how usually well-intentioned Christians overwhelm folks with a barrage of phrases. We go on and on about what we consider and what they need to consider, assuming we all know what others suppose, consider, or want. I usually discover that we’re giving solutions to questions individuals are not even asking or cramming data into hearts which might be eager for love, not simply info.
We fail to pay attention. We fail to attract out the center. And we miss alternatives to actually love folks and share the love of God with them. In addition they miss out on getting to listen to what’s happening in their very own hearts. I’ve discovered that when folks, together with myself, are invited to say out loud what they consider, they arrive to appreciate one thing is flawed.
Jesus slows down, attracts out the center, and listens.
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Speak Much less, Hear Extra
As we’re modified by the gospel, we wish to share how the gospel has modified us. It’s an ideal factor to take action. The truth is, one of many keys to rising in gospel fluency is to recurrently share what Jesus has finished or is doing in our lives with others. Our tales are highly effective demonstrations of the gospel’s energy to save lots of.
Nevertheless, if we don’t additionally pay attention, we are likely to share the excellent news of Jesus in a approach that applies primarily to our lives, the best way it was excellent news to us, however fails to handle the conditions others are going through. We are able to develop into proclaimers of the excellent news whereas remaining unaware of the methods wherein others want to listen to it. This doesn’t negate how good the information of Jesus is in any respect. Nevertheless, if we learn the remainder of the story of Jesus’s encounter with the Samaritan girl, we discover that whereas her testimony created intrigue, the folks within the village needed to meet Jesus for themselves. It wasn’t sufficient for her simply to share her story. They needed to get to Jesus as effectively.
So she introduced them to him.
Our job is to testify to Jesus’s work in our lives whereas additionally listening intently to others so we all know the best way to carry the truths of Jesus to bear on the longings of their hearts. We have to carry them to Jesus so he can meet their distinctive wants and fulfill their private longings.
As a way to do that, we now have to decelerate, quiet our souls, ask good questions to attract out the hearts of others, and pay attention.
Our tales are highly effective demonstrations of the gospel’s energy to save lots of.
Francis Schaeffer mentioned, “If I’ve solely an hour with somebody, I’ll spend the primary fifty-five minutes asking them questions and discovering out what’s troubling their coronary heart and thoughts, after which within the final 5 minutes I’ll share one thing of the reality.”2
My common counsel to Christians as of late is to spend extra time listening than speaking if they need to have the ability to share the gospel of Jesus in a approach that meaningfully speaks to the hearts of others.
We had been created by God to seek out our biggest satisfaction and achievement in him. Each human is hungry for God. Everybody has eternity written on their hearts, producing a eager for one thing—somebody—higher, extra important, and everlasting. It is a eager for God (Eccl. 3:11). The cry of each coronary heart— the native tongue of our souls—is for higher, not for worse; for the everlasting, not for the temporal; for therapeutic, redemption, and restoration. And solely Jesus can carry this about.
All of us lengthy for Jesus Christ. Everyone seems to be looking for him, even when they don’t realize it.
They’re searching for one thing to meet their longings and fulfill their thirst.
Nevertheless, they’re trying within the flawed locations. They’ll the flawed wells to strive to attract soul water. They should look to Jesus. However they won’t come to see how he can quench their thirst if we don’t take the time to pay attention.
And as we pay attention, with the assistance of the Holy Spirit, we are able to discern the longings of their hearts, the brokenness of their souls, and the vacancy of their spirits. After which, we have to be ready to point out how Jesus can meet them on the effectively with soul-quenching water—himself.
Notes:
- This story is from John 4.
- Cited in Jerram Barrs, introduction to Francis A. Schaeffer, He Is There and He Is Not Silent, thirtieth Anniversary Version (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale Home, 2001), xviii.
This text is tailored from Gospel Fluency: Speaking the Truths of Jesus into the Everyday Stuff of Life by Jeff Vanderstelt.
